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It was a shock to me to find out that my sister is a battered wife. I discovered it when I made a surprise visit to her house and found out that she is bruised all over. I asked what happened and she said that her husband came home drunk the other night and they had a heated argument. I told her to leave him. She said she’d give him another chance. Since I know my sister and her weaknesses, I acted strong for the both of us. In my mind, I said that if her husband would hit her again, I will personally go with the police to their house to assist in his arrest. For the meantime, I knew I had to act fast. I immediately bought a Home Security Systems for my sister. I purchased a DIY Security Systems which entails a panic button and security cameras. Those two were needed by my sister should another violent encounter with her husband happens. She could press the panic button to alert her neighbors and me if she is being attacked by her husband. The cameras would capture evidence in video of her husband’s inhumane behavior. While I don’t agree with the sister’s mode of giving her husband another chance, I still had to support her in whatever way through ensuring her safety and security. The home security systems she now has is a concrete form of support I have given her.

If our partners admit their medical conditions or any pain that they feel, it would be a very beautiful world. The truth is that only very few spouses would like to reveal their medical condition and this is especially true among male spouses. First, many see hearing loss as a sign of ageing, senility, or the coming of old age. Second, many think that medical conditions are private matters and such should never be shared with a spouse. Remember that concealing or hiding one’s medical condition is one of the primary reasons for divorce in many states in the United States. Third, many believe that revealing one’s medical anomalies especially hearing loss is show of weakness. Males consider such a confession a form of self-inflicted emasculation. The healthy spouses, instead of nagging and complaining, should move immediately to save the relationship and save the sanity of the other spouse. Hearing impairment can lead to depression, anxiety, and other mental disorders. Tell him that the solution is simple – a hearing aid. Tell him about the website and assist him while he answers our online hearing tests.

You the spouse should be strong in such situations. A hearing loss will cause him to withdraw from society or develop behaviors which are extremely irritating. Are you going to allow a simple medical condition to ruin your relationship? Do you still want him to hear your beautiful bedtime stories? Do you want to reminisce your first date and first kiss and hear him talk about his “version of events”? Again, don’t let a simple hearing loss ruin what you have built because the solution is simple – procure a hearing aid.